Picking up the Bartender (with a twist)

[DJAntonius]

Hey guys, I could use some help on this one. I went into a restaurant last week and realized that the I knew the hot bartender from high school 10 years ago (I have not seen her since). She actually recognized me, came up and asked if my name was so and so, and we started talking for a little while. During our conversations, she asked me if I was married, she reciprocated a lot of my questions, and seemed to show some interest. Granted she gets paid to do this. She also dramatically comped by bar tab, and told me not to be a stranger when I left. She also mentioned she had been single for a couple years as one of the things we talked about was whether or not she still talks to the guy she dated for years in high school.

I was thinking about going in there again tonight, which would be 4 days later. How would you guys approach this? I'm still trying to learn. Thanks.

 

[Dhoulmagus]

Some bartender was flirting with me last night. I noticed she wasn't doing the same to other guys, but I still tipped her standard lol.

 

[The_411]

Yes bartenders are paid to flirt with the customers but asking if you are married and mentioning that's she's single are statements of interest.

a bit of red flag that she's been single for a few years. and certainly something you want to find out more about.

 

[thunder_god]

I would have asked her out that day when she mentioned she was single and asking about your relationships, but since you ****ed up, I would go back there in a few days and try to ask her out. If you get anything but a yes then she's not interested so don't waste anymore time on her.