Picking up rebound chicks

[jamescr73]

Im talking to 2 chicks 1 who i have known for about 4 years, and there has been some attraction/tension between us the whole time, we have just been involved with other people the whole time, and this chick i just met last week and we went out last friday on our first date. Well, the first girl is going through a breakup right now with a guy she has been with for 3 years, and the 2nd girl went through a breakup with her guy a month ago whom she was with for 4 years. Both of them are playing the "im pretty messed up right now, i dont want to see anybody i just want to sit and cry myself to sleep and wallow in my own self pity" card. Well I want to play rebound guy. Now, chick #1 calls me ****y all the time because i throw C&F at her any chance i get, and I think she likes it, but sometimes its hard to tell if she digs it or is thinking im arrogant. Chick #2 is very shy, so I dont tease her as much, but she told the mutual friend of ours that introduced us that she likes me, and thinks im "nice", but just wants to hang out and get to know me and not jump into another relationship (yeah me too).
Anyway, what can i do to help these fine young ladies through their hardship of breaking up with their boyfriends, and move on to the rebound guy?

 

[Big-J]

This has headache written all over it.

 

[sexy_kuta]

to be honest man, i wouldnt even **** around with girls who got baggage. it will eat you alive. but it is possible, just gotta up with alot of PMS and mixed singals all over. get her over. shes on a emotion rollercoaster, so take her for a ride!

 

[Adrian]

I didn't bother reading your post but all I can say is that rebound chicks = A free lay. Just stay away from their personal problems.

 

[zerocelcius]

:nono:

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

I didn't bother reading your post but all I can say is that rebound chicks = A free lay. Just stay away from their personal problems.

Yup. If your looking for a relationship with them I'd stay far away.

 

[kdnash82]

I agree with everyone else. In this situation, I would use rebound guy as carefree sex. This is usually the best time to get a girl in bed. She's vunerable. (sp?)

I'm sure people will disagree with me on this one, but alcohol goes a long way with these chicks. I'm NOT saying to go out and get her crap faced. It doesn't even have to be hard liquor. Hell, you could fake it, and make her think she's drinking alcohol. (think "50 First Dates") The point is, that girls believe they can lower they're guards down when they've been drinking. Which is the reason they keep other women around them when they go out. Panty Protectors.

In my situation, I invited a girl over to the house with intentions on hopping in the hot tub and soaking away our stress. I went all out on drinks and bought the most expensive 6 pack of wine coolers I could find. (a whopping 3 bucks) We then proceeded to the hot tub with the wine coolers and sat in the tub, talking and relaxing. Relaxing turned into a back massage. Back massage turned into a make out session and the rest is history.

Put your own spin on this and you'll be that rebound guy also.

Ingredients:

1. Recently broken up girl
2. A place and time that you two can be alone
3. Small amounts of alcohol or the illussion of alcohol.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

I think I speak for everyone when I say, "I'd nail a hot broad who just broke-up with her boyfriend"

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

:nono:

Yup... :nono: Beware of becomming "The Rebound Guy."

 

[sexy_kuta]

I have been the rebound guy and its not fun.. at all
so i would take Kdnash82's advice without the alcky because you dont truely need that if your game is on.

dont listen to her stories about her exes, if she goes down that route, change the subject. talk to her.. get her to relax.. talk as you would usually on a date. get her to talk on subjects where you can relate. pull some moves, and bang, she riding like the rodeo !

 

[KontrollerX]

Yep, if you're with a rebound chick for anything more than the few weeks, months of free sex you're going to get burned.