"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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picking up my salsa teacher

pyros

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Hiya.

See this. I go weekly to salsa lessons.
My teacher is a 27 years old pretty hot girl. The thing is she has no tits almost, (I like big tits) and she has too muscular arms. On the other hand she has a ****ing hot ass and legs, cute face, etc.

I've been going to these lessons for about 6 months. Lately, she's been touching me more, laughing a lot when I say a joke or something funy, she's complimented my jacket today, she noticed that I cut a little bit my hair etc.

We were talking today at the main entrance, and we had a bit of a sexual conversation, she said something like: '...yeah I like to be touched gently...'
I said: 'I know you like it...lol'

well the point is, she says in her FB that she's in a relationship but she has 0 pictures with anything remotely similar to a boyfriend, so I guess it is fake. BUT, I saw that she has a picture of a guy as her mobile phone wallpaper...

I do not really like her a lot, but since I just banged two girls, this one would do, I'd bang her for sure.
How do I suggest I'd like to meet her outside the school?

I was thinking...:
A) sending her a text (she gave me her number once), and saying something like: 'hey 'teacherName', how r you doing? I think we should go out next friday night somewhere cool.

B) send her a text or a FB message asking her if she does have a boyfriend, something like: hey teacher, you and me should go get some drinks next friday but, are you single or what?


C) Aking her in person, at the school, if she's single, or just aske her to go get some drinks this weekend. ( Keep in mind she's my salsa teacher)


Ideas?
Thanks.
 

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FairShake

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Forget the beating around the bush thru facebook or text. If you want to go out with her, ask her in person or on the phone.

She's 27 so she's old enough to remember a time before facebook and text and just may appreciate the difference.
 

alxrose04

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You can't really assume anything. I'm always a fan of pushing it until hard evidence pops up in your face. You've talked to her enough times, so you should know some of likes. So tell her that you were planning to do whatever event she likes and that she should come along. Just make sure you flirt so you don't get dropped in the friend zone.
 
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