"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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picking up my salsa teacher

pyros

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Hiya.

See this. I go weekly to salsa lessons.
My teacher is a 27 years old pretty hot girl. The thing is she has no tits almost, (I like big tits) and she has too muscular arms. On the other hand she has a ****ing hot ass and legs, cute face, etc.

I've been going to these lessons for about 6 months. Lately, she's been touching me more, laughing a lot when I say a joke or something funy, she's complimented my jacket today, she noticed that I cut a little bit my hair etc.

We were talking today at the main entrance, and we had a bit of a sexual conversation, she said something like: '...yeah I like to be touched gently...'
I said: 'I know you like it...lol'

well the point is, she says in her FB that she's in a relationship but she has 0 pictures with anything remotely similar to a boyfriend, so I guess it is fake. BUT, I saw that she has a picture of a guy as her mobile phone wallpaper...

I do not really like her a lot, but since I just banged two girls, this one would do, I'd bang her for sure.
How do I suggest I'd like to meet her outside the school?

I was thinking...:
A) sending her a text (she gave me her number once), and saying something like: 'hey 'teacherName', how r you doing? I think we should go out next friday night somewhere cool.

B) send her a text or a FB message asking her if she does have a boyfriend, something like: hey teacher, you and me should go get some drinks next friday but, are you single or what?


C) Aking her in person, at the school, if she's single, or just aske her to go get some drinks this weekend. ( Keep in mind she's my salsa teacher)


Ideas?
Thanks.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FairShake

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Forget the beating around the bush thru facebook or text. If you want to go out with her, ask her in person or on the phone.

She's 27 so she's old enough to remember a time before facebook and text and just may appreciate the difference.
 

alxrose04

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You can't really assume anything. I'm always a fan of pushing it until hard evidence pops up in your face. You've talked to her enough times, so you should know some of likes. So tell her that you were planning to do whatever event she likes and that she should come along. Just make sure you flirt so you don't get dropped in the friend zone.
 
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