"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Picking up in Classroom

Propelis

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A bumpy situation came to me in which i desire to seek extra advice, haha that sounded good, but i thought i would ask you guys!.. i didn't realize how hard it was to actually attract and pick up a girl while in class or at least try, more particularly the class i'm in. the class is no bigger then 15 people so the class room itself is pretty small. The situation is, this hb sits at a different table which is right next to me but the ****ty thing is there is no time to work my skiillz. the fugging professor is constantly lecturing so its impossible to dose off into a convo with her. i don't see her before or after class at all. What the fug a dug should i do to work around this obstacle

PICTURE of classroom- for the visual people. :up:

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Nutty Prof. :crazy:
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[HB] [ME] :yawn:
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In advance, thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mtlwlu

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Yep, its hard to talk in a university class, because lets face it we're more mature and know its not polite to talk while the prof is lecturing. Anyways use notes, it works for me.

Heres an example of what I did

The prof was going on about how Oprah is overwhelmed (useless stuff in a class about education) Anyways I wrote on my paper "Oprah needs a hug :("
tapped the HB 8 next to me and pointed at my note, she laughed out loud. After class we talked about how the prof rants about useless crap, I got her name (thus facebook) and email after class. Definately going to work some game on her.
 

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never thought of notes, i must say that does seem like a good idea, if not the only, and the best.
 

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Pass her a sheet of paper with a tic tac toe on it. If she looks at you confusedly - look at the prof, look back at her, and shake your head like you really need a break! ..and keep smiling (winning the tic tac toe is not the objective here lol)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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haha yes. i like the way your thinking. She has been giving me so many IOI and it kills me inside not knowing what to do in a situation like this, usually i'd act but this was such a confusing setting for me. really.
 

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man, i totally know where you are coming from. im normally not very shy when it comes to picking up but in the classroom it just feels so odd.

there is this HB in one of classes and it just feels so awkward to try to approach during class.

i like some of hte ideas mentioned in this thread though, and ill be sure to try some of them.
 
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