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Picking up girls w/o verbal communication

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Hey
lets say you are in a foreign country without speaking the language and your targets cant speak english.

Without any proper way of verbally communicating how should you approach this situation eyecontact and kino escalation? basically in what ways can you seduce a girl with only non verbal communications and how do you approach these types of situations ?
 

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Lucifero said:
You think you can pick-up a women without actually talking to her?

lol, dis nigga silly doe.
this is a discussion i had with some friends suppose you are put in this position you approach a set and you find out the language barrier holds back your verbal communication how would you continue the set before you eject. so basically how would you handle the situation without ejecting ?
 

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agsk said:
this is a discussion i had with some friends suppose you are put in this position you approach a set and you find out the language barrier holds back your verbal communication how would you continue the set before you eject. so basically how would you handle the situation without ejecting ?
Interesting question.

Am I in the foreign land or my home country and what are the spoken language percentages? If I am in my home country I'm ****ed becaused I doubt I could find a translator, but if I am in the foreign land I would say "American, English", point to myself and try to find a translator...depending on the signals this broad is sending and how horny I am at the time. If I am very horny I'd point to myself and say, "American" then put her hand on my ****, check her reaction and if it's positive, give her a seductive look and point to her then to me and say "Hostel" (depending on where I am in the world).

Kinda graphic but thats what i'd do.
 

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Motions are universal, if she stares or watches you then yea she's interested. Throw her a wink and a smile, those are very universal. If she comes over to talk to you and speaks her language then put your finger on your mouth to stop her mid sentence, put your hand on you chest and say "American" then nod, she will nod back understanding you. Then point at yourself and say your name then point at her, you might have to do this twice. Once she says her name hold your hand out and smile greatly, say her name and shake her hand. Invite her to sit down, open your arm and point at a seat. Play the "how do you say this" game by pointing at things and saying their name, maybe she will catch on. Hell point to her lips and ask her how to say those, jump on your phone and google the word beautiful in her language then say "lips" in her language and follow it with "beautiful" and point at her and smile.

I don't think its difficult at all and suffice it to say that you might not close the deal but lets say you do some kino, learn some new words. Talk to her with your eyes, grab her hand, lead her out the bar, have her name more things as you walk down the the sidewalk, maybe pull her in close and go for the kiss. She'll know good and well whats going on, if she declines. Nod your head, stick out your hand, shake hers, smile and walk away.


It's called "Mirroring" and it's neuroscience and DJ's have been doing it for a LONG time.

http://www.cuttingedgepr.com/articles/mirroring-body-language-build-rapport.asp

You really have to think about back in the day when we did not have all this technology when we were going to other countries to make allies. Kissing, hugging, sex is universal and when two people want it enough then that is what making the moves are for.

But regardless it would be fun to try.
 

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haha, i wish i could say "challenge accepted!' and go to a foreign land and try it out.

Im sure theres away to do it. just dance or something, use a lot of eye contact, and kino. and just take her hand and walk her out of there. assuming all the factors were in place. im sure u can do it.
 

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Some cool responses thanks. I forgot to mention that I speak the basics of the language and I can approach and build an initial rapport but since we cant really communicate often I cant really build enough comfort for the pickup to become smooth.

Im familiar with mirroring and Im going to slowly implement it more to my game
 

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I see your concern. Realize that 93% of all human communication is non-verbal. Only 7% is verbal. This is a powerful piece of info that can make or break your attempt to attract that beautiful girl anywhere. That said, it doesn’t matter how much of a smooth talker you are. It’s literally impossible to attract a woman with words alone! Does it mean that you can be attractive without saying a word, no but close to it?

You might not know it but you have an upper hand when it comes to communicating with women without speaking their language. What I mean is that you can employ the 93 % of none-verbal communication without feeling guilty. After all you don’t speak their language but you still want to put in the effort of communicating with them. Women in other countries can find that very charming.

With that in mind how should you act? Be confident in yourself without being ****y and don’t think your language barrier cripples you from saying anything verbally and none-verbally. Trying to show interest in her language and culture can be the perfect vessel for finding common ground regardless of your differences. She will also find this charming. :yes:
 
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