"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Picking Up Girls at Sporting Events?

BPH

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I will/won't go to a baseball game in an hour based on what answers I get here...

An opportunity has presented itself.

I can go to my cousin's championship baseball game, likely at a semi-packed stadium. Now my thing is, do people ever pick up girls at such sporting events? I know there will be some hot girls there, but I'm thinkin they're just there to see their boyfriends play and win or lose.

Now at home I have some homework, I have to get more to eat on account of my workout routine, and I have a quiz tomorrow.

Should I go or is going worth my time?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gam

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Go if you genuinely WANT to be there, not on the off chance you might meet some chick.
 

Mantis Toboggan

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If you're going there because you think it will be fun to hang out with your friends and family, then go.

If you're going there with the specific purpose of picking up girls, then don't go.

Basically, I'm saying go where you think you'll have fun. And you'll meet girls through the fun.
 
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