"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Picking Up Girls at Sporting Events?

BPH

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I will/won't go to a baseball game in an hour based on what answers I get here...

An opportunity has presented itself.

I can go to my cousin's championship baseball game, likely at a semi-packed stadium. Now my thing is, do people ever pick up girls at such sporting events? I know there will be some hot girls there, but I'm thinkin they're just there to see their boyfriends play and win or lose.

Now at home I have some homework, I have to get more to eat on account of my workout routine, and I have a quiz tomorrow.

Should I go or is going worth my time?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Go if you genuinely WANT to be there, not on the off chance you might meet some chick.
 

Mantis Toboggan

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If you're going there because you think it will be fun to hang out with your friends and family, then go.

If you're going there with the specific purpose of picking up girls, then don't go.

Basically, I'm saying go where you think you'll have fun. And you'll meet girls through the fun.
 
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