"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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HIya.


I went to this office to ask for some information. The clerk was a ~22 years old cuttie. The moment I started to talk to her, I felt we clicked, or at least, she liked me.
I would have asked her for her number BUT, when I entered the office she was talking to a guy, and this guy just stood there while we were talking, so I dont know if he was a coworker, boyfriend or what.

How would you have got her number in this situation?

I thougth about just asking her for her number as if the guy was not there, and in case he was indeed her bf, I would have said something like: 'oh I did not know that' smile and go.

Now I was thinking about going again to the office for extra information and to ask for her number.


Ideas? tips?


Thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I think you'll get a lot of people that say you should ask for her number straight away. It shows balls, that's for sure. In this situation, however, I may have handled it much the same way as you did if: 1.) I have a reason to go back to the place she works and 2.) I am confident she was feeling me. The reason being that if she was feelin' you then you have built some sort of attraction with her. When you repeatedly visit you have the opportunity to build rapport. Attraction and rapport are what will get a woman wet. Not to mention the fact that there was another guy there, presumably trying to attract her if she is good looking. This is not to say you should be intimidated by other men, just that it can make your challenge a bit more difficult. If you talked to her long enough that she would remember you, I would say to play it cool in front of the dude and visit her again to build rapport. If you just had a quick conversation like she has with every other male who comes to the desk, you should have escalated the conversation.
 
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Man you punked out, you should have asked for her number even if the guy was there....

The worst that can happen is for her to say "No" and you can leave. YOu have nothing to lose. If that is her boyfriend, just apologize, you didn't know and politely leave.
 
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