"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Picking up Flight attendants while at work
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Maximus Rex
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Don't mess with your co-workers or chicks that work for your airline. You have too much to lose.Contrails said:
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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He said he's a passenger...not one who works for the airlines...I got nothing for you OP...I just have this image of Leo DiCaprio in Catch me if You can, strolling through the airport surrounded by about a dozen hot stewardesses that he conned into helping him sneak by the FBI. I hope this ends up being you.Maximus Rex said:
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Hahaha. Plenty of truth there.papawapa said:
But, in all seriousness, I really like Espi's answer. You have to be discreet when she's surrounded by lots of passengers.
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In another thread, dude mentioned that he was a pilot and my assumption is that he would flying on a buddy pass, (flying for free on the airline.) Sooner or later, it wil come up that dude is a pilot. Y'all need to quit with this advising dudes to jeopardize their jobs by hollerin' at chicks they work with.gravityeyelids said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Picking her up on the plane would have been much harder. Consider other passengers as better targets if there are any cute ones.