"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Picking Up Customers

drchristiantroy

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I work in a gas station at a major grocery chain and there are alot of hot women that come through my place. It seems like most are in the mindset of wanting to get their stuff and not to be hit on. I am wondering when you are dealing with a customer as a cashier would it be a good idea to try to do a # close? Or could this seriously cause me to lose my job? Also are there any good quick conversation topics that I could bring up. Since they are usually in my line for less than two minutes?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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drchristiantroy said:
I work in a gas station at a major grocery chain and there are alot of hot women that come through my place. It seems like most are in the mindset of wanting to get their stuff and not to be hit on. I am wondering when you are dealing with a customer as a cashier would it be a good idea to try to do a # close? Or could this seriously cause me to lose my job? Also are there any good quick conversation topics that I could bring up. Since they are usually in my line for less than two minutes?
Doesnt matter, when or where, JUST DO IT man... If its someone u saw for the first time, run outside and say
"I am sorr to have run outside like this, its just I have never seen anyone as beutifull as you, and I would love to take you to dinner... She pauses.. Let me just get your number for now cause I have to get back to work and I will call and talk to you about it later"

If it is a be-back (someone that you see comming in over and over) say
"Hey, you come here often, (she smiles or says something) Hey, I was thinking, I drove by this restarent and It looks like they might have good food, lets go grab something to eat there sometime"

Remember always with a smile :)
 

Serialized3

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I work retail and I never hit on the customers. Flirt like hell, but never close them or anything like that. I can just imagine someone reporting it to my boss and getting my ass fired for something I can do in my spare time.
Plus, they're at the store to get some groceries or gas or whatever, not to get hit on, like you said.

However, it's not like I give a sh1t enough about my clown-show job not to flirt with every single attractive girl I work with, date several, and nail a few. So what if I get a bad rep, it's a temporary job.
 

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I'd rather flirt with them insted of trying to get #close.
 
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