"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Picking up chicks in Norway... =/

Morphiex

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OKi i need some help here , cuz i live i Norway and people around the age of 16-20 dont really date they hookup at partys or get together after a long ass friendship....
Now being in Norway there are alot of HB but they are really really cold, wont even let people approach them unless they somewhat know them from before of theyr friends know them....
The game lets say In the USA its like Normal or easy while here is like Extra difficult...
So any one from scandinavia or that have been there that can give me some tips ?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kaparski

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European women are much easier to approach than North American. NA are more stuck up compared to european, well at least for me maybe because Im european myself.

Try reading some of the DJ bible, etc....... it applies everywhere
 

Morphiex

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Yeah i know that european chicks are easier to get but in Norway its a hole other thing then france spain italy germany and those countryes down there.... Norway poeple are just way cold....
 

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Im from Norway too,the *****es arent that cold here....try picking up women in Macedonia,u will for sure lose motivasjon after 2 atempts!
 

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Hi, I am also from oslo, norway, and my experience is the same as yours.

I have actually dated a US girl her in norway, and the whole dating procedure went like a charm, got lucky on the third date even. Norwegian girls generally dont like giving their phonenumbers out to strangers. Its not commonly done here. neither is standard dating, there is no norwegian word for it!

Like you say, the girls mostly have to be friends of friends or similar. So that you have their trust from the beginning.

The reason is that on the countryside, basically everywhere except oslo :p, people get together by local parties where they drink excessive amounts of alchohol.

knowing a lot of people is key to success here... paradoxically
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Same problem in sweden mate =(

Though I have an easier time picking up norwegian chicks for some off reason, probably cuz I meet them whilst they're on vacation, perhaps they're a bit loosened up then..

But I agree, alot of the stuff on this page, doesn't apply for us here, up north.

I agree that it helps to know alot of people. my problem is that EVERYONE in this bloody town knows me....

//Deus
 
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