"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Picking up at the Gym.

Addvrz

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Well, how would you guys go about picking up the hotest HB in the Gym? Obiviously physique is not a factor as she can pick from the most muscular guys in the gym which she usually ignores. And it's almost like the club because she gets hit on consistently. Also, showing no interest in order to stand out wouldn't work much since she could just ignore you back.

What would be a good opener to come up to a chick at the gym anyway? And follow up with and finally close right then and there?

It's unusual because I feel no anxiety and no feeling when I see an HB10 but I don't approach not because of what she might say or do but because I am afraid of not knowing what to say, and it's not a blanking out situation either, it's just that I have nothing to say.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheSplat

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"Excuse me, sorry to bother you, but my little sister is trying to get in shape for prom. It's pretty obvious you know what you're doing, so I was wondering if you could give me some women's workout tips I could relay to her."
 

NickSCFC2000

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Ha it's simple for the ladies, just tell her go for an hour's sprint every morning and for the rest of the day don't eat anything.

Saying that I'm the only guy on the planet who likes Angelina Jolie's new anorexia look
 

dav22

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Say you're looking for a workout partner and you thought she looked less intimidating than all the beefed up guys..
 
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