"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Picking up a cliquey chick~?

Red07

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Okay I have a slight predicament.. but when solved, it'll benefit myself and many others in the same situation.

My problem is that I'm not attracted by white, latino, black etc girls as much as I am chinese/japanese/korean etc girls.

However the problem in this is that chinese/japanese etc kids tend to be quite cliquey in the fact that they hang around in their own groups and tend to stay in them groups.

I've made some aqquaintences and am keeping away from the friend zone with them.. But I want to know how to get invited out by them and how to approach them with questions such as "when are you guys out" without feeling like I'm intruding, as I'm white~

Just so you can offer me some valid help here are some vitals:
~I'm out-going and witty and have no problem approaching or talking to people I don't know
~ I enjoy far eastern culture, so it's not just a hollow attraction
~ I attend university (that's how I know/meet them)
~ I have to commute to uni, they don't making it hard to be invited out
~ I have things in common with them (such as the programs I watch)

If there's anymore you need to know, let me know.. b/c it's the start of the academic year.. and the earlier I get this sorted the more of the year I can enjoy :)

Thank you
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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intel123

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idk ask a chiness girl for help with home work then you can easilyyy take it from there.. and that way she wont think ur just there for the *****
 

Alkali

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Wow, way to make me feel bad.

It's all hollow attraction for me.

Eastern culture isn't really existant anymore, so what's there to appreciate?

It's a western world, baby!
 

Red07

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haha

Maybe because the western culture is so prominant, I like the easter culture even more...

But no, usually the way I pull is the type with E. Values and story telling, and it's harder to do with girls who's first language isn't english.
Therefore I need help from people who are more experienced in other departments~~
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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