Picking up a Bartender?

[GameTime76]

Hey guys. Well I've been out in the field working on me and my game. But, I came to a situation where I didnt know how to conquer it.

I went out to the bar solo last night and ran into some people that I havent seen since Middle School!! But, back to my question. Later on that night this HB Bartender was working. Now, I had a very short convo with her only because of how busy she was.

I mean she was busy taking orders and serving drinks. It was hard to stop her to get to know her.

Is there some tips you guys have on how to pick up a bartender/waitress?

 

[MushroomGod]

I am a bartender and all I have to say is watch out. They're playing a game as much as you are. Basically they're trying to take your money. Most of them have BFs. It's hard to get them when you're a costumer the best way is to have another in other then just being her customer.

 

[horaholic]

I've banged a ton of them. Just come in on their shift a lot (especially during the slow time, and throw c+f at em. Dont tell them they're hot like every other dude does. Make her do favors for you. If you smoke, make her light it for you. make her invest in you. Dont supplicate! They can bang any guy they want, and they want a challenge.

At my hangout, everytime there is a new bartender, one of the regulars usually hits it within a couple weeks. Ive done several, and so have ALL my buddies. Its all about being first. Its a little easier, cuz the bar is MY HOUSE, imo, and they're the newbies, so I make em impress me, and do the chasing. I'll ask them out the first day on the job. The standard resistance is "I dont date customers." which is ALWAYS bullshyt. I just say "Dont worry, you aint gonna last long," then I go into my ashtray dodging routine. My bar is a tough crowd, so I jokingly pretend to throw ashtrays to judge their reflexes. An hb9 I banged said she was attracted to me from day one, cuz of the ashtray bit, and cuz I was really ****y. Its a lot harder to game them if it isnt your regular bar, and they arent brand new.

If they're slow, its easy to game them, cuz they kind of HAVE to talk to you. They respect you if you con lots of shots out of them. Watch how every AFC in the bar hits on them, and do something different. Just elicit value, and be entertaining. Another good thing, is to flatter her just a little bit, then immediately game another girl in her presence. That gets them riled up.

Keep in mind, they ARE party girls, and usually not suitable for dating.

 

[GameTime76]

Horaholic, Thanks for your experience and advice. I just got out of a relationship so I'm not looking for a relationship. Just someone to f*** a few times. Nor would I pay for some ho!

Last night was pretty busy for a Monday night. So, I would have to try my game on her on a slower day. Though, I dont plan on running out to the bar any time soon...

I will keep your replies in mind!