Well, i'm in a rather troublesome situation. This girl and I, we are close and all and showed signs of attraction for each other. And here i go screwing myself up with stress and family matters that i had to seclude myself from her because i dont want her to see how screwed up i was. (very bad) And its been nearly a month now and i finally got things to calm down, i was wondering how i should pick things up since its been 1 month since ive done anything or even had a 1on1 convo with her.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Picking Things Up Where I Left Off
- Thread starter Oni
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