Well, i'm in a rather troublesome situation. This girl and I, we are close and all and showed signs of attraction for each other. And here i go screwing myself up with stress and family matters that i had to seclude myself from her because i dont want her to see how screwed up i was. (very bad) And its been nearly a month now and i finally got things to calm down, i was wondering how i should pick things up since its been 1 month since ive done anything or even had a 1on1 convo with her.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Picking Things Up Where I Left Off
- Thread starter Oni
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