"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Picking her up or meeting there?

DJDamage

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Iv'e got a question to ask : Is it better to pick the girl up in her place with your car as you go to the date? or is it better to meet her at the date location? is picking her up supplicating or is it the right thing to do?

Please answer this question if you do have a car and dating chicks older then 19.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Desdinova

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Depends on how long you've been dating her, and if she's got a car. If it's a first date and she has a car, get her to meet you there (and make it a halfway point). If you've been dating her for a while, get her to pick you up for some of the dates. No need for you to play Boorman the Chauffer all the time.

If she doesn't have a car, by all means, pick her up.
 

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Every first date you have the girl meet you at YOUR house then you drive both of you to wherever your going.

If she's completely paranoid then just meet her at the place. And no halfway points unless there is not other viable choice. Have her meet you at some place near your house.
 

Maverick001

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Originally posted by Soma
Every first date you have the girl meet you at YOUR house then you drive both of you to wherever your going.

If she's completely paranoid then just meet her at the place. And no halfway points unless there is not other viable choice. Have her meet you at some place near your house.
DJDamage,

I disagree with Soma's suggestion, unless of course you've already qualified her as not being mentally deranged.

If not, have her meet you someplace, say a coffee shop, spend 15-20 minutes tops and if she doesn't give off any insanity vibe, arrange for the next meeting and leave.

Just my 2 cents.

Cheers,
Mav
 

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How about the answer: "It depends"

If you were planning on going to a comedy show and dinner afterwards and she lives close to the comedy show, she can meet you. If she lives closer to you, you pick her up. If the comedy club is in the middle for the both of you, she can meet you. If she is along the way to the comedy show, you should pick her up.

Ask yourself this: What do you do when you are planning something with a friend.

Seems kinda stupid to drive all the way to her house to pick her up and then drive 50% backwards towards your place where the comedy show is.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MindOverMatter

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Man don't worry about it. My car has been dead for almost 2 months, and I've been meeting girls at the location, or having them come to my place and then taking a cab together. If a girl likes you, she wont give a damn about such a minor detail.
 

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I prefer to drive so I just tell them I can drive. If they have some other idea then thats fine as well (meet them, or they drive me).

That does have its advantages - I don't have to deal with a woman driver, she can drink all she wants, I can always dictate when we leave if I'm getting bored.

In a LTR then we flip for it. ;)
 

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IT DOESN'T MATTER. BOTH COULD BE GOOD.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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