Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Picking an Idea for a Business

Desdinova

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Hey all. I've been thinking about starting my own business for a while. However, the trouble I'm having is that I have three ideas to work with! I need to choose only one that I can focus my time and energy on.

Is there any suggestions for how to choose the best idea?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RedPill

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What do you want out of starting a business?

You are at point A. You'd like to go to point B. What is point B? Which idea is the best vehicle to get you there?

Evaluate your choices based on the answers to these questions.
 

Chillisauce

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I'd do up a decision-making matrix in excel for starters. Put the three ideas down the left and criteria you think are important on the right. Assign a value 1-5 of importance, 1 being not important, 5 being crucial/very important. I'm not going to do this for you but a couple would be:

5 - feasability (has it been done before, likelihood you think it would have of success.)
2 - Estimated initial returns.
5 - estimated middleterm returns (after a year imo)
3 - estimated long term returns (2 years +),
3 - startup costs and asset requirements (do you have what you need to begin, will you need staff/management?, how much money will you need to borrow)
3 - your interest in the ideas field (obsession and a genuine interest in a business product/idea can go a long way.. one might look better on paper but if you find another one appeals more to you then you should pick it).
4 - do you have the neccessary skills/experience/contacts needed

You get the idea, pick criteria that you believe are important and assign an importance number (To figure out how important they are you might need to do some research on the success/failure of similar products)


now you fill out the table, say your first idea is 'turn the DJ Bible into a real publication' you assign a 1-5 on how well it achieves each criteria. For example, 4 for feasability, 4 for initial returns, 3 for middle returns, 2 for long term returns, 5 for startup costs if you had the rights to the material ;) and the money needed, 2 for interest if you dont really find DJ stuff interesting, and 1 if you have never written a book and dont have the neccessary contacts for the last criteria. Remember when assigning values to not be too optimistic. So now you total it up mulitplying the criteria importance value by the other number and come to a total of 20 + 8 + 15 + 6 + 15 + 6 + 4 = 53
Do it for the other 2 as well and the one with the highest score is your best bet.

I hope you find this useful, took longer than i expected to type up. You should also do some other things in conjunction with this to decide but without actually knowing what your ideas are i cant offer advice on that yet.
 

Chillisauce

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So Desdinova, did you get around to picking a business idea or did you get distracted by a short skirt?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Stud

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i'm curious as to what the ideas are.
 
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