"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Picked up a girl, then on my way home bumped into her again!

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God damn, i picked up this hot blonde yesterday who was really chatty, it was difficult to get a word in, every so often i'd interrupt her cos i could tell it might be going down the friend zone route..

anyway outside i number closed her, and she seemed really excited to go for a drink but at same time it did feel a bit friend zone, when i initiated kino she didn't respond, she didn't flinch but didn't respond either.

so i go home about 1 hour later shes coming in my direction.. im like wtf? i play it cool and go 'hey' she goes 'hey! how funny what a coincidence..'

me thinking 'sh1t she's prob gona think im a stalker now'

we talked a bit more but i overstayed the convo and acted a bit nervous (i did act a bit c0cky saying ahh so what you going to cook for me then? or so can you clean too? ;) she didn't respond at all.. maybe thought i saw her as a housewife type), almost like i had to explain why i was there.. and before i left i go i said a bit nervously 'i'll call u in the next few days and set up our meet' (dumb, musta came across needy) she goes 'ok.. what are you eating for dinner?' i was talking really fast and acting nervous, dont know why panicking a bit really.

shes very chatty so i cant read into any of it.

would it be better if i waited maybe an extra day before contacting her? after the 1st meet she wont know if i was gona call, now by saying that i'd call her in next few days the challenge is over for her, it really depends whether she genuinely liked me in the 1st place.

esp seeing as i acted a bit nervous towards the end of the 2nd convo. such bad luck really. has anyone else had a similar issue bumping into your HB an hour after you picked her up?
 

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Has anyone ever experienced this and what did they do to tackle it?
 

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pikachu69 said:
Has anyone ever experienced this and what did they do to tackle it?
You got no responses because your question is irrelevant.

So you bumped into her shortly after getting her number. It's a weird coincidence. So what?

It's definitely not something that would increase or decrease her Interest Levels towards you.

Has it happened to me before? Sure. What did I do? Briefly chatted, then I said, I have to go, but I'll get in touch with you. ...was that mind-blowing information?
 

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c&f response would be "Wow you are everywhere!" Subtly accusing her of stalking you!

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

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