"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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heater528

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Went to a college bar last night and managed to get 3 girls ranging between 7.5 and 8.5's numbers.. I was rather up front with them right away and complimeted them on their look and let them know i was looking for some ass... Amazingly they all responded good to this... I have never been that up front with a girl i just met and i was pleased with the results :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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milkman

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Originally posted by heater528
I was rather up front with them right away and complimeted them on their look
That was good. ;)

Originally posted by heater528
and let them know i was looking for some ass...
Yeah, but what happend then? How does it come that you only have their numbers and nothing more happened?

Were you looking for some ass that evening or later the week that you wanted the phone numbers?

Next time try to close the deal right there when you have the chance. Getting a phone number should always be only the last ressort. ;)

Having said that, sounds like you were doing fine. :up:
 

heater528

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Yeah i agree, should have went back to the dorm with one of them. Problem was i didnt drive and i was 40 miles from home. My friend never gets any action so he didnt want to stick around
 
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