"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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miba

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So tonight, I was with my wingman, and we spent the night walking around this popular shopping area. It was about 9.30pm.

We go down to the train station, and we see these 3 hot *****es standing around. We go stand near them, and my mate hears the name "Miles" mentioned in their conversation.

So he turns and says "Do you know Dave Miles?" (he doesnt even know the guy, just bull****ting), and they're like "Oh no, a different one. But we know Dave Miles". So he's like cool, where are you headed? They say some club or whatever. We bull**** that we were at some party. We tease them a little about drinking chick drinks and they like it. Then their train comes and they say "you should come clubbing with us" (but we couldn't coz we're only 17, but we bull ****ted that we were 18), we said we had to get somewhere but they should give us their number.

So we got their numbers and gonna get coffee with a couple of them in a few days.

So basically, we found something they were talking about, and used it to start a convo, and basically just talked bull **** and they loved us. :cool:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ligyron

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So one could call this the bullsh*t technique?
 

miba

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Oh yeah, we said we had a car, and they were quite impressed.
 

i am me

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hahaha aw man i woulda been laughin my ass off if i did that. that was bull**** the whole way through
 

Plec07

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Lmao sounds good for a ONS. Your in trouble if you end up getting to know them well though.

Girl: Hey, you wanna come to mine?
Guy: I got no ride.
Girl: What happened to your car?
Guy: Er...... It's in the shop?
Girl: Alright, I'll come to yours
Guy: *off the phone* Phew, that was close.

Next time

Girl: Blah blah, drive somewhere, come to mine, take your pic
Guy: No ride story again, in the shop ect.
Girl: You don't have a car do you?
Guy: Er.... *quiet voice* no
Girl: Lying **** *hangs up*
Guy: Bollocks... Looks like Mr. Hand will be my only partner tonight :(
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Supremo

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haha who cares.
unless miba wants a relationship with one of them. its not like they'll be around long enough to wonder/care if he has a car.

good job.
you did what most guys CANT do which is take what she says, pick a part of her story to talk about, then continue the conversation, and repeat.

you build rapport and possibly attraction with these girls and got their number.

"bull**** theory" my ass. he and his friends got numbers.
its not the process that counts, its the result
 

sandman6991

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Until you tell them you're 18 and they check your myspace and stop talking to you when they find out you're 16...but I'm over that :D
 
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