"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheGameMaster

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I go to tesco's 2 or 3 times a week and see sooo many hot girls there

i can never think of a situational opener, do you have any?

"hi how are you" just wont cut it really.

thanks in advance guys
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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best situational openers are when you notice something about her clothing, like her shoes for instance.
 
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Take a good look around the area she's at and comment on the thing she's about to purchase.

Example: If she's getting vegetables (whichever it is)
"You know, I was thinking about getting some (WHATEVER), too. Problem is, I don't know what to cook with (WHATEVER) today. What would you recommend?"

Or,

Notice a thing she's wearing that catches your attention (could be clothing, accessories, anything) and proceed from there.

Example: "Hey, that's a really interesting (wristband/shirt/belt) you got there. Looks great! Does it represent anything special to you or just wear it 'cause it looks cool?"

-VdoubleR
 
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