"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pick up gold-diggers using a false business set-up?

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Most hot girls are gold diggers, right?

There is this one video I looked at that talked about picking up gold-diggers with a false business set-up, false business cards, and a set-up where people could verify your income if they so confirmed it. I know set-ups like this exist because I know mortgage agents routinely use false job letters and false verification networks to get unemployed people mortgages for like a
$ 600.00 payment.

Thus, for some nominal fee, anyone can have a false business set-up, make up a bunch of cards, and hand them out to hot babes with any type of lame pick-up since you have this sort of game to back it up.

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I'm an agent, so I can exagerrate my business and claim that I'm working with builders & developers with big commercial deals, etc if I really wanted to play games on this.

Has anyone tried a false business set-up to get laid with gold digger chicks? Has it worked?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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that's diabolical. You'll still have to blow some cash on them, tho.
 
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Obsidian said:
that's diabolical. You'll still have to blow some cash on them, tho.
Not necessarily. Rich people have a reputation of being stingy and some are even miserly. I've heard reports that one rich guy bought his gf soap for her birthday - they are very, very cheap so your natural limitation of resources will fit very well.

And, I can fake that I live in a million dollar house. Just have to find one for sale that doesn't have a sale sign in the front lawn, and just explain away the lockbox. But dont think I'll do that.
 
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Fenderules said:
why would you want a gold digger anyway?
'cause they are usually hot, and you just need enough game to get laid anyway, you just have to be honest to get rid of her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Luke Skywalker said:
'cause they are usually hot, and you just need enough game to get laid anyway,
You just said "You just need enough game to get laid" and I agree. Therefore the conclusion is that why go all that trouble to create a false business if you can work on your game??
 

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This looks like the real world equivalent of a Wile E. Coyote scheme to catch the roadrunner; overly complex solution to a simple problem where the simple solution works better but has fewer interesting failure modes. The only reason I can see to do this is if you really need to distract yourself from the real world issues at hand.

In short, great plan if you don't care to suck it up and face reality.

Luke Skywalker said:
Most hot girls are gold diggers, right?
No, most gold diggers are hot girls, mebbe. Women are wired to want security, but full on gold digging is a pretty rare over-expression of a natural thing.
 

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That ish ain't rare..lol..

Most girls imo would do it if they think the guy wouldn't catch feelings over it.
 

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I disagree, Nicole Smith "I'll go with a shrivelled up 90 year old corpse for the money" full on Gold Digging (caps intended) is IMO relatively rare. On the other hand they almost ALL prefer a guy with some cash over other guys. It seems to be a pretty normal distribution.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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here is an idea.......... in stead of putting all the work into "pretending to be rich" why dont you focust that effort and ACTUALLy becoming rich
 

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http://www.intellectual*****s.com/masterladder.html

According to ladder theory, 50% of a woman's attraction is based on money. Money = security for them and their offspring so its a genetic trait.
They probably do it subconsciously.


oops, filter blocked out wh0res in the link.
 

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lol, Ladder Theory. That's the site that originally convinced me to abandon my AFC lifestyle. ;)
 

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It's a good read for newbies. It should be the first chapter of the bible, IMO.
 
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Fenderules said:
here is an idea.......... in stead of putting all the work into "pretending to be rich" why dont you focust that effort and ACTUALLy becoming rich
It's all about perception. Why pass up opportunities on the path to greatness with a bit of game, right?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fenderules said:
here is an idea.......... in stead of putting all the work into "pretending to be rich" why dont you focust that effort and ACTUALLy becoming rich
Too much work for most guys and it would take too long to get laid I'd guess.
 

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Would serve them right.
 

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Interesting link, Ladder Theory. Pretty much corresponds to my own observations.

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According to ladder theory, 50% of a woman's attraction is based on money.
Not quite. Money/Power.

I'd even go so far as to say perception of power, based on my observations. I've seen many dirt poor minor, not particularly physically attractive rock stars who get laid a lot, and plenty of other (mostly not very attractive or charismatic) guys who make plenty of money, but get no action.

Also, I'd say attraction is more important for being on the "fvckable" ladder. If a man is dirt poor and DJ enough, a sex-starved hottie would most certainly be more likely to hit it with him than a rich fellow who grosses her out... but more likely to marry the rich, gross fellow.

In fact, a three ladder analogy, in which there's a "use for their money" ladder might be more accurate. Think of the classic rich cuckolded husband with wife who's screwing hot guy on the side. But it's really more like a matrix than separate ladders ... the distance between the "ladders" can vary greatly.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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