Pick and choose

[comic_relief]

Hello DJ-ers,

You know what is amazingly different between being a DJ and an AFC?

I can pick and choose whom I go out with. I am not desparate for attention for women. I have five girls numbers on my desk right now and six more on the back burner. Not to mention, multiple girls on the back burner.

But, how can a person whom could not even get a date two and a half years ago.

Simple, I followed the DJ tactics and put my self-esteem up there. I did many of the DJ things and started to become myself. It showed through and now I have to beat girls away with a stick.

Just today, I was called a flirt and asked "how old are you?" or "Do you have a girlfriend." by a 6.5. Nice girl and a very nice person. just not my type.

Tomorrow I got a date with a HB 7 to a county ho-down. At this same time, I did not get the numbers of 6 girls because I was not the least bit interested in dating these girls.

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Guys, to the new and struggling DJ's that can not see any new information. Your getting girls with the tactics and with a little work. Guess what though between you using your tactics and me just using my own charm. I get the girls to become attracted to me without any problem at all. I am myself now.

Women are very attracted to a person that is real and not just using tactics. You may get those girls, but will you be able to keep them if you are just using those tactics.

Work on yourself and picking up girls will be effortless. Don't use the tactics. Work on yourself. You will be getting women, fame, and success. It is worth it. I am living proof of it.

Work on yourself first, and girls will follow. Work on girls first, and you have learned nothing.

comic_relief

 

[izza]

I have a question for you, but let me preface it with a story. I had a piano teacher who could tell exactly how a person practiced by how they played. She could tell what their inherent strengths were, how they'd approached the piece, what they'd done to prepare both mentally and physically. The lady was a wizard; I seriously thought that she must have some sort of psychic power. But she told me flat-out, we reap what we sow. How you practice is how you play. If you prepare for something, you'll be ready.

I realized a lot later that this was incredibly applicable to getting women. How you practice is how you play. If you prepare for something (even if that something is being unprepared!), you will be ready.

A trained eye can tell you 60 things about a man by the way he approaches a woman.

I have recently decided to do an experiment in the vein of your post. I'm not going to approach a girl until it's easy. Everyone says it's hard to approach a girl at first, so people doubt that I can succeed. But I have an ace up my sleeve. It's basically what you said, I'm going to work on myself with a certain technique. If it works, you'll hear about it soon enough!

Again, I won't approach a girl until it's easy. I won't ask for phone numbers until it's easy. I won't try to kiss a girl until it's easy. I bet I'll be doing all of the above by the end of this month, even though it's never been easy before.

Who is Dr. Beard?

 

[comic_relief]

I have always approached girls and guys the same exact way (except the love making part). I talk to them the same exact way, ask the open questions and start conversations. Women and men are the same exact thing with different parts. They are all people.

With that said, I am not saying to use any techniques at all, but just self-improve. People can use techniques all they want, but eventually most people will feel like they will want a girlfriend. Than, all the techniques that you use will eventually just fall to the wayside. Your true self will be shown and what if a person has no personality and hated themselves. All the fake confidence in the world will eventually wear off because walking on egg shells is not the way to live life. How is it good to try to keep up your defenses all the time, 24/7.

Personally, I believe that your true self would show up within a couple of weeks and if you still hate yourself or what not with any personality fault will show up. Sometimes, it will scare off the woman that you are dating or even worse she will take control (if you are a weak person, than she will). Self-improvement is the Road of the Champions and Kings.

Using techniques is the Road of the Chumps. Even if you get the girl, I know a lot of guys that get girl after girl after girl that cannot keep a girl because of their real self is disgusting and every girl knows it. That is why he cannot keep her.

Question though to you, have you ever talked to a woman before in your life (mommy does not count)? Have you died? Have you managed to commit suicide over it before? Do you have any female friends? If so, than why would going up to girls to talk to them? That seems like stupid logic that approaching women is hard. Considering in actuality we have been training for our entire lives for women by talking to previous women in our lives. Unless you've not ever talked to any women at all. women act the same way men do with a few minor differences, but people can steer the conversation to travel, sports, or whatever the hell you want.

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By chance do you ask for numbers to hang out with your mates? No difference between it. You ask the same thing with a different method to your madness. Asking for numbers is easy. Your own mind makes it different. Mindset is what makes the difference.

Women are the same as men until you make it mean something else in that person's eyes. People complicate things way too much.

comic_relief

PS: Dr. Beard is the funniest troll that I ever heard of. Do a search on Pigeon and look for the poster Dr. Beard. He is hilarious.

Also, if found look for the thread "Tiger games." That is the funniest thread that I have ever seen.