"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Physical violence is a weak move

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My mate from work went back home to Italy on holiday a couple of weeks ago and started banging this new bird. Good for him.

He also got his face smashed in by the ex boyfriend who apparently was/is a boxer/cage fighter, or whatever. Not just your everyday black eye, a real shiner. And not even after an argument, just walked up to him in the street and started throwing punches :lol:

My mate is not the biggest, fairly tall, but lanky, and weighs about 55 kilos. But he has the winning personality that obviously makes panties drop.

Point is, lashing out at people once beaten to the prize, physically, verbally or otherwise is a weak d!ck move. The sign of a sore, game-ignorant, blue pill loser.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My mate from work went back home to Italy on holiday a couple of weeks ago and started banging this new bird. Good for him.

He also got his face smashed in by the ex boyfriend who apparently was/is a boxer/cage fighter, or whatever. Not just your everyday black eye, a real shiner. And not even after an argument, just walked up to him in the street and started throwing punches :lol:

My mate is not the biggest, fairly tall, but lanky, and weighs about 55 kilos. But he has the winning personality that obviously makes panties drop.

Point is, lashing out at people once beaten to the prize, physically, verbally or otherwise is a weak d!ck move. The sign of a sore, game-ignorant, blue pill loser.
Lol another post that places all the blame entirely on the two men who are both being played by a skank. Doesn’t get more “blue pill” than that.
 

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I agree if it's going to obviously be one sided. The bigger guy should take the high road. But if the smaller guy continues to pester on and really toes the line, 1 good punch should do.
 

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Lol another post that places all the blame entirely on the two men who are both being played by a skank. Doesn’t get more “blue pill” than that.
Regardless of the girl's status as a skank or not, it's the reaction I'm talking about.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Regardless of the girl's status as a skank or not, it's the reaction I'm talking about.
you could say your friend was the weaker one here since he was beaten up, don't matter what you think physical violence have his uses, and its what keep people on the line most of the time, so maybe stop complaining about it and know how to defend yourself?
 

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you could say your friend was the weaker one here since he was beaten up, don't matter what you think physical violence have his uses, and its what keep people on the line most of the time, so maybe stop complaining about it and know how to defend yourself?
Self defense like any nation is important.
 

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I would never fight over a woman. Potentially ruin my own life and that of someone else. It's probably the weakest move.
 

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Well I grew up in the rough areas of Chicago so I'm not going to say I'm against physical violence, but fighting over a ***** is as beta as your going to get lol.
 

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Well I grew up in the rough areas of Chicago so I'm not going to say I'm against physical violence, but fighting over a ***** is as beta as your going to get lol.
And that's the point. The discussion isn't about the intentions or agenda of a woman it's about the reactions of a man. I would and have had fights for close friends and family, but that's it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Right, you know what's funny though? She's going to sweet talk the ex and he's going to fall right back in her lap, then she's going to get ****ed again by another guy lmaoo
 

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Fighting over a woman, potentially going to jail for it, or fataly injuring another man, over Vagina?

In my eyes, this is some WEAK ass, beta SORE LOSER behaviour.

If a woman was in danger, and you stepped in, and chit got rough, well that is understandable.

But fighting over a Hoe, because she left you for another, is absolutely PATHETIC
 

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Right, you know what's funny though? She's going to sweet talk the ex and he's going to fall right back in her lap, then she's going to get ****ed again by another guy lmaoo
Ha. Yeah. I mean my mate is like properly 'in love' with her :lol: I mean, she's 19 years old :lol: I don't have the heart to tell him it's not going to last. Bless, he's only young as well. We all learn one way or another.
 

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I would never fight over a woman. Potentially ruin my own life and that of someone else. It's probably the weakest move.
again it not you fighting over a woman its defending yourself, if you are incapable to defend yourself you are weak, someone came at you wanting to fight there was not talking your way out, and certainly going to jail for it was not a issue for the dude attacking him, so tell me what you do? go to a forum crying its weak when you have bruises all over?

the world don't care what you think or hold dear, he will eat you up on any sign of weakness, not defending yourself be it by force or word is weak
 

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again it not you fighting over a woman its defending yourself, if you are incapable to defend yourself you are weak, someone came at you wanting to fight there was not talking your way out, and certainly going to jail for it was not a issue for the dude attacking him, so tell me what you do? go to a forum crying its weak when you have bruises all over?

the world don't care what you think or hold dear, he will eat you up on any sign of weakness, not defending yourself be it by force or word is weak
Fight for yourself.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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again it not you fighting over a woman its defending yourself, if you are incapable to defend yourself you are weak, someone came at you wanting to fight there was not talking your way out, and certainly going to jail for it was not a issue for the dude attacking him, so tell me what you do? go to a forum crying its weak when you have bruises all over?

the world don't care what you think or hold dear, he will eat you up on any sign of weakness, not defending yourself be it by force or word is weak
Nobody is suggesting you shouldn't defend yourself if a man attacked you, because of some woman.

I am talking about, dudes who will go and attack another man, because his hoe left him, or she flirted with another dude.

Any man who physically fights over woman, in my eyes is pathetic.. UNLESS she is in danger!

While your in jail serving time, and trying your best not to get butt fuked by Jamal & Tyrone, she will be out BUSY lining up new Fresh DIKS, to replace your sorry ass!

Just don't do it man!
 

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Any man who physically fights over woman, in my eyes is pathetic.. UNLESS she is in danger!

While your in jail serving time, she will be out BUSY lining up new Fresh DIKS, to replace your sorry ass!

Just don't do it man!
Amen.
Any man that can’t control his emotions enough for a woman to the point that he attacks another man over her is both immature and has very limited control of his emotions…
 
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It's easy to come online and type that. You think people think rationally when women are concerned? If you found out some dude is smashing a girl you love you will see red (I imagine). Same way I see red when some guy disrespects me. It's heat of the moment/passion/pride.

After my conviction after a brawl I haven't fought since, but I sometimes get in angry moods and WILL people to give me a reason to fight. It's stupid and weak, but there's a reason men the world over are fighting and dying and always have been, for disrespect and pride. Some find it easy to lay down like a pvssy and I agree it's a much easier existence, but I would rather sleep well without thinking "did that person punk me?" "am I a b!tch?" I'm sure many people reading this have had those moments, I have too, it's not nice, I don't know how people can block it out because I can't.
 

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Amen.
Any man that can’t control his emotions enough for a woman to the point that he attacks another man over her is both immature and has very limited control of his emotions…

This is spot on..

A man like this is unable to control his INSECURITIES because his chick flirted with some dude.

Now you must physically beat this dude, because your woman is an attention Hoe?

You find out your girl has fuked another man, a total stranger to you.. Now you must beat this man to DEATH because YOUR woman is a RAGING HOE!

The other dude owes you ZERO loyalty... He is only doing, what MOST men will do... TRYING TO GET LAID.. He owes you NOTHING

You have NO reason to beat his ass, simply because the woman who does actually owe you some LOYALITY turned out to be a c0ck sucking HOE.

Again I repeat, any man who goes around fighting over woman, is an insecure beta male, with no control over his emotions and complete lack of self control.

Who in the right mind wants to do a 3 year prison stretch over some fuking woman he dated for 6 months, who isn't able to keep her legs closed!
 

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It's easy to come online and type that. You think people think rationally when women are concerned? If you found out some dude is smashing a girl you love you will see red (I imagine). Same way I see red when some guy disrespects me. It's heat of the moment/passion/pride.

After my conviction after a brawl I haven't fought since, but I sometimes get in angry moods and WILL people to give me a reason to fight. It's stupid and weak, but there's a reason men the world over are fighting and dying and always have been, for disrespect and pride. Some find it easy to lay down like a pvssy and I agree it's a much easier existence, but I would rather sleep well without thinking "did that person punk me?" "am I a b!tch?" I'm sure many people reading this have had those moments, I have too, it's not nice, I don't know how people can block it out because I can't.
You should know ypur not a bytch. No one should be able to convince you otherwise. Plenty of idiots have died or been set back due to "pride".
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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