"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Egoist

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Originally posted by Phantasmal
Tall girls. I'm 6'4", so give me a girl who's hot and 6' - 6'2" and I'll splooge my pants. Major points given for being a red head and/or having an athletic build.

I also have a thing for girls on the shorter end of the spectrum. If she's 5', it's almost as good as if she's 6'1".
man.

there is a chick in my building, who is like the hottest tall girl i've ever seen.

she's definitely taller than 6', probably like 6'2-6'3 and SOOOOO hot. Its really rare though, because most tall girls are either too curvy and big boned so they look like scary viking women, or too skinny and manly.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yeah, there's this girl I work with, probably 6'1" or 6'2", athletic build, super hot. I wrote my post with her in mind. I genuinely keep my cool around 99% of girls but oh my god, I admit, I'm reduced to a shriveling pea around this girl. The hotness is ridiculous.

Being tall can go really wrong for many girls, though.
 

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I like competitive, "perfect" girls who know they're that good.
 

The Juan and only

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Originally posted by tseluca
Kevin, get off my ****,

you follow me around here like a lost puppy trying to derail my posts and "neg hitting" on me
You do NOT understand neg hitting....and like mr unique said, you're probably not even a woman.

..****in' trolls...:trouble:
 

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Originally posted by DonJuanMonk
I don't trust dark skinned people.
said the man in the white dunce cap.:crackup:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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