"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Physical Disability and DJing

gtownjuan

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I truly believe that improving my life is the only step i can take to actually living it. I have been dedicated to self improvement over the past 6months now. I still feel inadequate sometimes because of my special condition. Now i am not looking for emotional support im just seeing if there is a way that i can still reep the benefits of djing as a person without a physical disability would. So i will not encourage any pity just a say on it.

At birth i developed a condition known as congenital cataracts, for all you googlers its where the lens of your eyes get foggy and you go temporarily blind. For me, being so young it has had long term effects. I lived with it developing for four year before i got the opaque effect. I then underwent surgery and had my lens cleaned, which ment at that technological time, they had to be removed. I then had to ware the equivalent thickness of the lens in your eyes in my glasses, which are very thick. I also developed nyastagma aka slight shakeyness of the eyes since the cataracts fogged my vision and my brain told my eyes to be continuously looking for light i.e it moved constantly until it became involuntary.

Now i am wondering is with the condition contradicting my game(eye contact mainly) and even social status and success with women. Would it disturb you if a persons glasses was unusually thick making their eyes look big and kinda shaky affects you impression from that person?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ducaro

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Yes, it will defn affect your chances of picking up shallow women. But, when it comes to genuine decent women, it will not stop your 'game'... infact some women may find you 'cute' with your glasses!
 

Bible_Belt

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Every problem is only as bad as you consider it to be. Confidence is what matters - even confident guys have their problems, but they don't let it get to them.
 

Lexie

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What these guys have said is so true ^^ What you may consider a hindrance, your dream girl will find endearing.
 
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