"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Physical Attraction

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is the WAG look still what passes for 'beautiful' in ol' Blighty? Compared to the poor sods I know with disabilities, to whom dating is probably a very trivial concept? Compared to their real everyday struggles?
 

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ABSOLUTELY.

In fact, if you don't have your outer physical appearance perfected (it is a part of the GAME even before you start talking to her), you WILL FAIL to get her to respond with interest.

To maximize your chances when meeting a woman as a stranger, make sure:

* You are clean cut and smell great (invest in some good cologne, I recently tried on Versace EROS, it was amazing).

* You have a pair of amazing shoes on that speaks volumes (yes, it does)

* Make sure your entire outfit MATCHES in color coordination

* Make sure your entire outfit FITS you like a snake shedding its skin and shows your hard work in being fit (if not fit, don't even try - go work out some more)

* When in doubt, always dress up a bit more than the environment you are in

* Each time you see the same woman, make sure you dress in a whole different style so she can see how diverse you can be. If she didn't like the way your style is the first time meeting, you have a better chance hitting her interest the second time looking totally different. (if your first date was coffee date, take her on a second date a bit more formal so you can dress up and let her drool over you).

* Make sure your eyes are clear and not blood shot or tired, non-verbal eye contact is very essential part of making a connection with a woman, and your breathe is fresh and clean.

* Make the most out of your hair, if you have good hair - put some styling product in it to make it look more modern and fashionable (gel, mouse, whatever). A GOOD haircut versus an AVERAGE haircut makes a huge difference, take the time to HUNT out a good hairdresser who can cut YOUR hair (it is like a match made in heaven when you do).

There is a STICKIED post in the MATURE MEN section that talks about style, go check it out if you want to learn more.

Good luck.

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