"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Photos of chick I messed with w/ Makeup VS without makeup (Beware Make-up Pwnage)

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I made a post about this about 2 weeks ago of what happened, but here's the cliffs....and basically I'm pretty much done with her after she stood me up last night.

Cliffs:
- Co-worker met a chick at a club....he fcked her the next night.
- He never wanted to see her again so he gave me her number
- I texted her saying 'What's up, I met you at the club..'
- Met her, chilled in the car, fcked her in my backseat that night.
- I still kept in contact with her because I wanted pvssy
- She found out while going through my phone that I knew that guy she had a One Night Stand with
- Never wanted to talk to me again, but still called me...
- I made the mistake of still talking to her even though she says I irritate her, etc. But my Ego got in the way, because I wanted to bang her again.
- She stood me up last night telling me to pick her up at a shopping mall she is with her friend, so I went, she wasn't there. She called me from a block number and when I told her I was there, she hung up and I had no way to contact her.

ONTO THE PICS...............Make-Up...Not bad looking:





NO MAKE UP...



She looks like a fcking killer in this picture ^
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SinJester

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Umm what's the point of this? Anyway she doesn't look too good to me.
 

belividere

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SinJester said:
Umm what's the point of this? Anyway she doesn't look too good to me.
I guess the moral of the story is not to **** ugly girls that your friends try to pawn off on you after they had a one night mistake?
 

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montybrown said:
I made a post about this about 2 weeks ago of what happened, but here's the cliffs....
No I remember and I'm bamfvckinboozled why you would even bother writing a post about this bird? :confused:

It's probably not that cool posting the poor b!tches photo either.

GFTOW this is sad and embarrassing for everyone.
 

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I think it is very classless to post her pictures. And no...she is not that attractive.

And I doubt you even had sex with her. Sounds to me like sour grapes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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being a don juan is NOT about messing with girls like THAT

shes not even good enough for a starter girl for an experienceless AFC......just sickening
 

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Well I've got nude pics of her when I did bang her... and that would be the ones very 'classless' to post. She's not THAT bad looking with make-up though. Which is why she ever had a chance w/ me to b egin with
 

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montybrown said:
I made a post about this about 2 weeks ago of what happened, but here's the cliffs....and basically I'm pretty much done with her after she stood me up last night.

Cliffs:
- Co-worker met a chick at a club....he fcked her the next night.
- He never wanted to see her again so he gave me her number
- I texted her saying 'What's up, I met you at the club..'
- Met her, chilled in the car, fcked her in my backseat that night.
- I still kept in contact with her because I wanted pvssy
- She found out while going through my phone that I knew that guy she had a One Night Stand with
- Never wanted to talk to me again, but still called me...
- I made the mistake of still talking to her even though she says I irritate her, etc. But my Ego got in the way, because I wanted to bang her again.
- She stood me up last night telling me to pick her up at a shopping mall she is with her friend, so I went, she wasn't there. She called me from a block number and when I told her I was there, she hung up and I had no way to contact her.

ONTO THE PICS...............Make-Up...Not bad looking:





NO MAKE UP...



She looks like a fcking killer in this picture ^
I don't find her too bad. She looks cute.

AFC_Savior or anybody else, you say anything about my choice, you could just refer down to my sig. :yes:

comic_relief
 

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comic_relief said:
I don't find her too bad. She looks cute.

AFC_Savior or anybody else, you say anything about my choice, you could just refer down to my sig. :yes:

comic_relief

yea, you are happy with ugliness because you dont view yourself highly at all.....we all know that
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She is an HB 2.5 and I would not touch her with a ten foot pole. If you good looking than she does not belong with you. And if your not that good looking than you get in were you fit in. Its obvious you still have oneitis for this girl. She disrespected to you and your best off cutting contact.
 

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this ***** is UGLY!
with or without makeup, DAMN brotha im sorry your penis was even near her.
 

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yea, you are happy with ugliness because you dont view yourself highly at all.....we all know that
exactly, I do NOT view myself highly at all :rolleyes:

comic_relief
 

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What the chick looks like is absolutely irrelevant. The fact that you posted her pictures (I can rest assured without her consent) is one of the most AFC things a boy can do.

You're essentially saying: "Hey look at me, look at me! I had sex with a chick (possibly) whom I took some pics of and now I'm going to blast her for fvcking me!"

How fvcked up you are. I'm also assured that it was not she who came to you to get laid. You went to her, as your pals throwaway, and did the deed. Then you want to complain about her? Be boy enough to post pics of yourself not some imaginary chick in order to garner attention from men.

This is childish and you need to do whatever you can to make your other testicle drop.
 

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i think she looks pretty good. solid 6.5 at least, maybe 7. the only one that really looks bad is the third no-makeup picture, which is obviously just a bad angle for her (not to mention it cuts off part of her head and the rest of her body)

but yeah, she's obviously a hor. And why did you let her go through your phone? Moreover, how did she know that you had a mutual friend just from going through your phone? She found out that you had a contact named "Steve" after she'd just gotten done having a ONS with a Steve, and therefore it was the same guy? Man you must be an idiot to let this happen.

but like I said, she was a true hor anyway, the real deal
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude, she no 6.5...wtf is wrong with you people. Has DJing become reduced to fvking fat cows and writing a lay report saying she's a HB8????


Those pics are horrible man...i don't give a sh1t why you posted the pics...don't care...prolly not cool, but whatever man. That girl is so goddam ugly.

Oh god...she is so goddam ugly man...I swear I looked at the MAKEUP PICS and I was like OH GOD DAMN THAT'S UGLY. But then I was like "wait did the OP make a typo?" And i open the no make up and I was like HOLY FVCKING SH1T SPARE MY EYES

yeah that was some horrible sh1t man...plz don't post fugly girls ever again. EVER. goddam....
 

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Shes fat and ugly but at least she still kinda resembles the same fat and ugly girl in both pics with make up and without. Ive been out with this go go dancer chick and shes hot with make up on, but looks like a totally different girl without...she has pimples,very thin eye brows and a sucked on face...

When i saw her like that i just though "MAN...you must wear a sh!tload of makeup to cover that up!"

Anyways...the point of this is... "Makeup can do miracles!"
 

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I don't see much difference that can't be attributed to basic grooming and posing honestly. She's strictly average, I wouldn't call her ugly *yet* but a few more years or pounds and she'll be there no problem. I don't think I could do her, I have a sort of pretty face rule and she's not passing.
 

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i think she looks pretty good. solid 6.5 at least, maybe 7. the only one that really looks bad is the third no-makeup picture, which is obviously just a bad angle for her (not to mention it cuts off part of her head and the rest of her body)

but yeah, she's obviously a hor. And why did you let her go through your phone? Moreover, how did she know that you had a mutual friend just from going through your phone? She found out that you had a contact named "Steve" after she'd just gotten done having a ONS with a Steve, and therefore it was the same guy? Man you must be an idiot to let this happen.

but like I said, she was a true hor anyway, the real deal
You must be drunk OB...
 

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I think it's possible she's one of those that looks a lot better in person, which would make her average, but the pictures are really bad. Warpig bad actually but again I bet she's just not photogenic and the photographer wasn't very skilled.

In life she's probably one of those girls no one really notices.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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