"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anyone here have photography as a hobby?

I've always been interested in it but I've never had to money to buy a decent camera and start. Somewhat lame excuse but call me lazy, haha.

Anyway, how much can i get a decent camera for? Also what additional parts do i need to buy? Does anyone have like a set of guidelines i should look out for when purchasing a camera?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You can get a great entry level DSLR for well under a grand. I'd stick with Nikon or Canon. Buy a book on photographic techniques and learn about how to use ISO, f-stops and shutter speeds. That sort of thing. Get an assortment of lens filters to do interesting things(you'll need a UV filter at least to protect your lens. Get a tripod. Learn how to use Photoshop or Lightroom to fix your pics or do other interesting things like High Dynamic Range photography.
 

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Thanks for the input! I've got a sense or direction now, haha.
 

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Sweet! thanks for the links, especially love the first one.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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search1ng said:
Anyone here have photography as a hobby?

I've always been interested in it but I've never had to money to buy a decent camera and start. Somewhat lame excuse but call me lazy, haha.
You don't have to spend a lot of money on a camera to get into photography. I have a Minolta XG-1 that I got from Goodwill for literally $5 (plus tax) that was in pretty much new condition and works great. It just needed some batteries and film and it was good to go. It's my favorite camera that I've had, and while I'd like to have a nice digital camera, I'm very satisfied with this.

I would highly suggest that you check out your local second hand store or check around for a good cheap camera, because it is much easier for you to drop it as a hobby if you are not interested than if you already sank hundreds (or thousands) of dollars into it. And remember that price does not make the camera, and that many cameras and photography equipment is ridiculously overpriced because they know people will be dumb enough to pay that much for it.
 
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