I find this thing really interesting, I personally look better irl than in photos and for dating world and social media today there is massive use of photoshop and ofcourse this weird thing, for example I saw pictures of a lot girls and they were amazing and when we met I was like is this same person, those things can **** you up, rest of the night is awkward and I found it really funny, do you have similiar funny experienes?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
photogenic but not attractive
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Serenity
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I don't think there's massive use of photoshop in social media, most people don't know how to use it and it is a very expensive piece of software.
Most of what you see is a result of camera angles, lighting and simple filters.
Most of what you see is a result of camera angles, lighting and simple filters.
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Photoshop or Filters. I'm the opposite I'm not photogenic, but look better in person
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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My family always say that I'm photogenic and my sisters envied me over it especially because I don't use social media. I think I still look pretty good irl though.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.