Phone+Woman=Confusion

[Water_Man]

I don't get this. I had a woman show interest and gave me her phone number without me asking for it. I call her she talks for a while then decides she has another call which I am sure she didn't have. I can understand maybe lose of interest or whatever. But why in the heck would she talk to me then all of a sudden decide to get rid of me???? Wouldn't it have been easier for her to just say oh hi I am busy call back later?????????

 

[Golden Arms]

why ask why ????

NEXT !!

 

[Water_Man]

Originally posted by Golden Arms
why ask why ????

NEXT !!

Because I never had one talk then decide to blow me off and I WANT to know why.

 

[Golden Arms]

Originally posted by Water_Man
Because I never had one talk then decide to blow me off and I WANT to know why.

Girls do a lot of flaky, confusing things. It's best not to spend your time wracking your brain as "to why did she do this and what was she thinking" ?
Who knows - maybe she did have another call ? Really, you shouldn't spend a lot of time on the phone, just call to set up a date and that's all

You succeed when you ACT, not analyze and the way for you to ACT right now is NEXT.

 

[mateo_g]

Major rule here to follow guy, keep the phone calls SHORT, breif and too the point. And always, ALWAYS, be the one to end a conversation.

Get the pleasantries out of the way, get her to commit to meeting up in the next week, cool, calm, and steady. Then, say "Well, it was nice talking with you but I've got something to attend to" or something. You need to seem busy and active at all times early on.

The phone can be a killer because you may feel the need to open up about yourself. No no no, be mysterious. And DO NOT be a kind ear for a woman to blab all day about her problems.

Be funny, quick, and get out of there. Save the conversation for when you are in person. That way you can have eye contact, kino and all that good stuff.