"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Phone/ Text Game on a 10

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This one is driving me absolutely crazy. I picked up this incredibly gorgeous girl at a juice stand (she works there) around 3 weeks ago, but I can't get her to to hang out outside of work. We've been doing the text message thing where she keeps on dropping ioi's, but every time i ask her to come out she's always got something to do (mind you, she's really busy training people and such for the school year, but ive had girls completely ditch everything for me many times before... so i'm finding this pretty odd).

So far my game has included lots of negging and comfort building... it's actually gotten to the point where i talk to her coworkers how bingo, etc. was, knowing they went together... far beyond how much time I would like to talk to a girl I haven't made out with yet.

My in person game has gotten pretty good, where I'm doing k-closes within 15 minutes, and I know I can do it with her... but how can I get to see her in a way to get some kino going?


Thank you, and beers on me to whoever can help me crack this one (assuming you live in the Toronto area)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good point. Any ideas on how to play this one then? I'm getting girls at clubs and such, but this phone game crap is killing me... Especially with the 10s.
 
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Get a HOT female friend to do you a favor: accompany you to "run into" your target chick. Have your friend act like she's on a date with you, and SHE is more into you than you into her. Just have a smile on your face like you have already "hit it" with your date previously.
Then... sit back and read the texts that come in. you can also do this with your targets friends. If nothing else, its worth a laugh, and it will be fun. Be sure to be dressed well, and also to take your fake date to a bar afterwards, to CONTINUE your ways in the form of social valueing. Hot chicks can be great wingwomen so it will be fun.... either way.
 
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