"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RiceHapa888

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im in a difficult situation with a girl im dating...she will be gone a total of 2 weeks to Florida- she called me up once so far- I call her back a day later and she doesnt pick up( I hang up after about 5 rings and leave no message)- now its been 2 days...I'm not really dieing to call actually but since I'm posting about this it means I'm thinking about it...so anyways should I just not call her till she gets back or call her later tonight or tomorrow? I don't wanna be too aloof and I also don't wanna be too anti challenge- ideas?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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f*** that my solution is to call her up on thanksgiving to wish her a good turkey day and tomorrow night I'll be at the club. am I doing things right? who knows but I'm just going to try to have fun
 
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888,

Hey Pal,

Wake up.........she just gave you a 'dump job'.
Sh*t, your history.

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