"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jackman

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If I was your mentor, I would slap you in the back of the head little grasshopper.
 

Circa

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I've never had phone sex, so I wouldn't know how to initiate it.

I would assume you could just ask her. Or maybe start saying sexual things over the phone and maybe it could lead to something. If it's your first time, I don't think you would be that good at it.. just like regular sex. Getting girls hott over the phone is an art. I would suggest practicing it on some of those "whatever" girls you have stashed in your closet, the ones you do all your little experiments on first.

There's also the fact the girl may be completely turned off by even the thought of it. Too risky if you ask me. I would just meeting up with her and just escalate the sexual tension by kino until she gives into REAL sex.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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