"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Phone routines

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I did do a search, but haven't quite found what I'm looking for.

Do you guys know of any specific articles with routines for...establishing phone rapport, getting yourself into the girls head via phone, etc.?

I know that the phone is just a bridge towards being face to face and establishing rapport/horniness/whatever then, but...girls DO go for conversation, and from what I've gathered the phone can be a good tool.

I've got an upcoming call for this girl...want to keep it short (10 minutes-ish), but I also want to make an impression that will help me even more when i meet up with her again.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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Ask her what she did that day, take it from there, cut it short, set up the date, and hang up the phone.
 
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