"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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keemojung

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1. What would u guys do if you call a girl and then she

push the button to disconnect the call?

Act like nothing happen or ask her why she did that or else?

2. How long should we wait to call the girl after got her number?

Is it ok to offer a date within the first call or we need to make

her feel comfort enough then offer the date later?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1.) She either "fvck-you'd" your call. (I sometimes do this too with people I don't I want to talk to.) It's a sign of low interest.

or..

2.) She lost service and is having some sort of phone troubles.

Either way, she probably has low interest. A girl that is extremely interested in you would find a way to get service as soon as possible and call you back immediately.

You might be better off letting this one go and spinning more plates. Go no contact. If she then decides to contact you just act like it never happened.

-Scars
 
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Scars said:
1.) She either "fvck-you'd" your call. (I sometimes do this too with people I don't I want to talk to.) It's a sign of low interest.

or..

2.) She lost service and is having some sort of phone troubles.

Either way, she probably has low interest. A girl that is extremely interested in you would find a way to get service as soon as possible and call you back immediately.

You might be better off letting this one go and spinning more plates. Go no contact. If she then decides to contact you just act like it never happened.

-Scars
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It is quite clear that she has low interest in me. She is kinda hard to get

type of the girl. However, i had a dinner with her back in the last two week.

Things went okay.

Right now, im hittin on her by smiling and winking at her in the workplace

but no chitchat, send msg to tease her every other day, rarely make

a phone call but now trying to make more of it to better in seducing her.


I actually want her to be my girlfriend. (I also spin plates with 4-5 chicks, so no worry)


What should i do with her then? Do I act too needy or desperate?

I am quite sure that if i go NC, then she wouldn't call me back, not even text.
 
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