Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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phone number then call ?

AlexTheGreat

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I'm gonna ask this HB8's number tomorrow, but I'm wondering how long I should wait before calling. She goes to my school, but is one year younger than me (I'm in grade 11, she's in 10th.)

I mean, the DJ bible says to wait minimum 2-3 days, but is that applicable to highschool too ? I see her about 2 times a week, but don't really talk often to her. Should I wait 2 days before calling her ?

And I already know she's got high interest (everytime I see her in the halls, she smiles at me ... The other day, I was at the movies, waiting in line, and she came up to me and started talking to me. So, I don't doubt a second I'll get the number :D)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WesCottII

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If it was me I'd set up a date there and then....

Wes: I'm at a loose end tonight, lets go !whatever!.

If I was forced, say I got the number on a Friday, I'd call on the Monday. Less chance that she's doing anything, also you can use the weekend as an excuse why you didn't call.
 

familyguyfan

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You should call her Friday afternoon or evening to hang out that night, or Saturday.
 

AlexTheGreat

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Alright, phone number has been received :D

We have a half day on thursday, so I'll call her tomorrow night and ask her to do some **** with me ... :D

Thanks a bunch guys !
 

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Na if shes bored when she is away she will call you. Appear to have stuff to do at the weekend. When she inevitably calls you when she is bored say ''im busy right now, ill call you back in half an hour'' Then call her in half an hour. You have control of the situation. Dont be a wuss who has nothing better to do at the weekend than talk to a girl on the phone. At the moment it seems like you are making her your only option and that your life revolves around her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AlexTheGreat

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hahahaha

lol It may seem that way, but it's entirely the opposite : right now, I'm DJing a few girls, being cool with all of them. I have a date with some chick tomorrow, had something planned for saturday too but she cancelled so I'll just go to a party I had planned.

In short, nope, I'm not putting my eggs in this only basket ; quite the contrary. I talked to her 3 times, and frankly, I don't give a **** if she doesn't wanna hook up. Her loss, I got other prospects in view :D.

Anyways, I called her up, and she lives like 50 KM away from me, so she takes a special taxi from school to her place, which comes right after school. She thus has no time to chill afterwards, so we didn't do anything. But, when I called, she seemed very friendly, almost nervous, but really happy. And, after I asked her and she said she couldn't she was like "thanks for calling though !" in this really joyous tone. Seems to me like she's interested :). Only time will tell .... I gotta talk to her tomorrow though, just to have more contact with her.

Thanks guys !
 

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Haha, screw the fishy business. What I think you should do is just dump the phone call stuff. You already see her twice a week, why would you want to hear her voice over the phone where you can't initiate anything physical or hit up some kino.

I don't know how your school works or how you could get it done, but the best thing you can do is get her off that campus and out with you.
 
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