"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Phone number success....and some lessons

Keymaster of Goza

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Last night I was out at a beer garden with a couple , some friends of mine.

My buddy's wife pointed out a group of four girls of to my right who were dancing together.

My confidence level wasn't that great but I went over to them anyway and said a few lame things, I can't really remember what.

Anyway of the four, one was a warpig, two were reasonably hot , maybe 8s and one was less hot but still doable, by definition a 7.

I did my best to talk to all of them, but focused on the 7 because she was showing the highest interest level.

The 8s kept asking my name but I kept giving them the brush off with statements like "that's a state secret, sorry but I'm bound by the official Secrets Act" and then just changing the subject.

Pretty soon the 8s were starting to get pissed and were almost begging "C'mon just tell us your NAME!" but I kept playing games with them.

Eventually when I got the 7 alone I said to her "by the way, my name is *****, what's yours?". After another 5 or 10 minutes I told her I had to leave and she gave me her number.

The strategy here that I was aiming for was to seem mysterious, to frustrate the 8s , and then reward the 7 for her high interest level by giving her something that her hotter friends couldn't get thus making her feel special .

I'll call in about 3-5 days.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don the Legend

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Great Job Keymaster!

Keep up the great posts.

Legend

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"As you walk down the fairway of life you must smell the roses, for you only get to play one round."... Ben Hogan

"The key to happiness in your life is "Your Life",... Don the Legend
 

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And yet another success for the success forum?
 

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Thanks again Neo,

Moved to 'Success Stories' Forum
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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