"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Phone number problem

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Well, I was supposed to be introduced to a chick by my friend before our school ended(From the Philippines our school starts from June and Ends at March) but time couldn't permit it, so my friend just gave me her number. So what do I do? I fear that if I just start texting her out of the blue, I may come off as a stalker since I didn't get the number from her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you shouldnt text or call people that you dont know unless someone tells them that you should expect their call.
 

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I know, but I think my friend told the girl bout me, so is it safe with that?
 

penkitten

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call up your friend, ask if the girl knows they gave you her number and if its ok to call.
if it is ok to call and she is expecting it, then its ok to call her.
i wouldnt call the day i got the number , i would wait a day or two .
 
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