"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Phone game?

Deicide

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Hello, I'm new to all of this stuff, so I'm naturally not going to know much about phone game. I understand that I need to call and not text to set up dates. I've been doing that, but I've run into some bad luck lately.

One girl I called for the first time told me she had to drop her Mom off somewhere, and that she would call me back that night. She didn't. I saw her at the mall last week, and she smiled and recognized me, and I told her "Let's go out", and she agreed. And I called her yesterday afternoon, and woke her up. She mumbled something and hung up the phone. I then sent a text that day asking her what day was good for going out(assuming the sale), and she never replied. I don't know what to think. All of these events were at least 4-5 days apart with the exception of the text. I go to college with her, so I may wait until college starts back to attempt anything with her.

Text messages, voice mails, and when to return the call are quite confusing for me to correctly do at this point. But we all have to start somewhere.
What is good phone game? I have read the Dj Boot Camp protocol for correct phone game, but I still need help.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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terran2k

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let her actions speak more than her words. She's verbally saying yes to dates, but everything she is doing is saying she doesn't want to go out with you.
you're wasting time with this one.
 

NorwegianDJ

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Calling or texting, which one doesn't matter, they are both good, and they both have their purposes.

Phone game will always have a direct relation to how well you did when you met her. Your phone game can't really surpass your normal game.

Text should be used to set up a day 2 and upping her interest enough for a "movie at your place"/day 2. Anything that isn't towards these goals should be ignored.
 
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