"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Phone Conversations

LADawg49

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I dont know if its me but I just have a hard time havin a convo on the phone with a woman. I get all tensed up and I just don't know what to say when on the phone with a woman. I met this girl in a chatroom, don't have much interest in her romantically. We talked for three hours two days in a row online and then she called me (exchanged numbers) and I just got tensed up that I didn't know what to say. I guess now I can see why the DJ Bible says not to talk much on the phone with a woman.. When dating a woman, how often do you all talk on the phone?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Dapper Swindler

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I'm also awful at talking on the phone. Use it to arrange a date and then get off it. I'm sure most women would rather be talking in person than on the phone with you anyway.
 

xsonik

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really? the phone is my playground. i personally like to deepen my voice a little more, make it seem relaxing and hypnotizing. in hs i got a girl to masturbate on the phone porbably not because of only WHAT I said, but HOW I said theem. the trick to speaking well on the phone is just not thinking about what you might say wrong so damn much. all that stuff relating to confidence in the dj bible, well put it to use. except this time instead of being in person, it is over the phone. hope this was some help to you.
-Ron
 

xsonik

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oh yeh by the way, i don't spend more than 10 minutes on the phone anymore. i'd rather not reveal all my cards to her right away , and would rather talk to the woman in person.
 
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