“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LADawg49

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I dont know if its me but I just have a hard time havin a convo on the phone with a woman. I get all tensed up and I just don't know what to say when on the phone with a woman. I met this girl in a chatroom, don't have much interest in her romantically. We talked for three hours two days in a row online and then she called me (exchanged numbers) and I just got tensed up that I didn't know what to say. I guess now I can see why the DJ Bible says not to talk much on the phone with a woman.. When dating a woman, how often do you all talk on the phone?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dapper Swindler

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I'm also awful at talking on the phone. Use it to arrange a date and then get off it. I'm sure most women would rather be talking in person than on the phone with you anyway.
 

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really? the phone is my playground. i personally like to deepen my voice a little more, make it seem relaxing and hypnotizing. in hs i got a girl to masturbate on the phone porbably not because of only WHAT I said, but HOW I said theem. the trick to speaking well on the phone is just not thinking about what you might say wrong so damn much. all that stuff relating to confidence in the dj bible, well put it to use. except this time instead of being in person, it is over the phone. hope this was some help to you.
-Ron
 

xsonik

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oh yeh by the way, i don't spend more than 10 minutes on the phone anymore. i'd rather not reveal all my cards to her right away , and would rather talk to the woman in person.
 
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