"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Phone Call Rules

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So whats the basic "rule" for phone calls, we all know get the # call maybe 1-2 days later and no longer then 5-10 minutes, have you ever heard of a guy that calls a girls and stays on the phone for 3 hours? cell phone none the less...

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So whats the basic "rule" for phone calls, we all know get the # call maybe 1-2 days later and no longer then 5-10 minutes, have you ever heard of a guy that calls a girls and stays on the phone for 3 hours? cell phone none the less...
There are NO rules. Determine your own game, your own successes and failures and tell us what worked for you, not asking for something that probably won't work for you. Hell, some people don't phone at all, some wait 2 weeks, some do it a day after. Find out for yourself, and read GGTW's post.
 
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