"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Phone Call Rules

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So whats the basic "rule" for phone calls, we all know get the # call maybe 1-2 days later and no longer then 5-10 minutes, have you ever heard of a guy that calls a girls and stays on the phone for 3 hours? cell phone none the less...

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So whats the basic "rule" for phone calls, we all know get the # call maybe 1-2 days later and no longer then 5-10 minutes, have you ever heard of a guy that calls a girls and stays on the phone for 3 hours? cell phone none the less...
There are NO rules. Determine your own game, your own successes and failures and tell us what worked for you, not asking for something that probably won't work for you. Hell, some people don't phone at all, some wait 2 weeks, some do it a day after. Find out for yourself, and read GGTW's post.
 
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