"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"Phone Call From Old Friend"

Dntueva

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I was reading "The Game" Today and a woman that used to work with called me to give me her "New" phone number out of the blue.
I used to give her major "kino" in the theray gym at work.

She would tell me, that it made her "moist" when I did and she would moan and all that, but at that time, I was married and Couldnt follow thru.

Well she talks a little blah blah "oh I broke up with my BF" Blah blah blah (she said it really fast).
I said " No No no wait go back in the convo about 1 1/2 sentances.
She well I broke up with my Boyfriend got rid of the old baggage ect.

So I suggest when she is ready and over that I would give her a call or she could call me.
She said DONT lose my number!

She had to go out of town yadda yadda yadda but would be back .
I said well maybe we can get together and I can finish out a rubdown like we used to talk about. Oh yea great, that will work good for me, etc etc.

So Should I persue, or am I reading this wrong.

Yes I know im still acting AFC but im trying not to.
Thanks
TheDnt
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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joekerr31

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you did fine. now just sit back and wait for her to call.

the only advice id give you however is not to jump so quickly into sex innuendo.

offering to finish the massage is the same as saying 'why dont you come over so i can screw you.'

and she knows thats what it means.

the risk you run with that kind of line so early in the game is that she may end up thinking that all she means to you is a booty call and nothing else.

even if thats what shes looking for its still much better to be subtle about it. women want to be led into the bed room, not pushed.

more over, when you jump into sex focus too quickly you make her the prize. you should never talk about sex, in my opinion. you should take her out, get her worked up, then have sex - theres no need to telegraph to her that you want it, all that does is make her think she's got all the power.
 

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Hey bud, don't worry about being AFC. Look at this as a positive, a great girl called you to give you her phone number, she has interest in you. Don't worry about blowing it, just have fun and that's all that's important.

Your outlook will reflect in your attitude and come through in every aspect of you life. Be positive, you must have been doin something right for her to show you all this interest, follow up with a call and make a date. Glad to see a post around here where somethings going right for someone. Congrats.
 
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