"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey guys, I'm new here so bear with me if this has been covered elsewhere. This problem is probably really common for guys in college.

I sit across from this chick in class and one day we locked eyes for about 10 seconds. Every class since then we make consistent eye contact, roll eyes, all that ****t. So I've been sitting across from her, and i didn't want to look shady and just sit next to her - today I decided to approach her after class (missed a few opportunities previously).

I asked her name, then if she wanted to get coffee. She had coffee in her hand (ugh). But we chatted for a bit while walking, it had some awkward moments, then I asked her number. She smiled and gave it to me, but i'm not sure if she has much of an IL, though at this point I'm ballsy and I'm gonna run with it anyway. My read is that she's a really smart and good girl w/o much experience. Fine with me.

Here's the rub. We have class on Thursday. Today was Tuesday and I have her number. I'm anticipating some weirdness in class on Thursday... any ideas on my next move? I can't call her before Thursday
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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EDIT: You got it today, nvm.. I would just wait to see her again.

Make sure you sit next to her.
 
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