"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Phone Backgrounds

TheNewStyle123

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Funny observation I have noticed with the past 3 new girls I have bucked. Every single one of these girls has a photo of themselves as their phone background on their lock screen. The photos are usually ones on their Instagram/OLD profiles. Usually a high-quality, photoshoot-esque one.

Not sure if this is a subtle way of them reminding themselves "see how hot I am" every time they check their phones for a confidence boost, but I find it incredibly amusing and vain.

Can you imagine how ridiculous one of your guy friends would look if his phone background was himself? He would be judged by both women and men.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SW15

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The wild thing about this is that you are mostly interacting with Latinas. The common thinking is that U.S. born White women would be more prone to narcissism and more prone to doing something like this. Western culture can poison women's behavior, even women from more traditional Latin American countries.
 
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