"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Phoenix, Tempe, Scottsdale, Chandler (Arizona)

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Young Juan

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Looking for a wing or two in the area. Kind of in and out of the game, but decided to stay in this time cause I know I can do better. Looking more so to develop natural abilities rather than techniques. Already know I'm good looking, working on shaping up. Looking for fellas that are down to chill and kick it on weeknights as well as weekends. Also looking for a workout partner. Basically looking to expand my social circle with some cool guys with similar interest.

About me? 26, 5'10, athletic, graduated from U of AZ.

If your down, let me know, if you wanna know more, let me know.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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well i know tempe and phoenix very well but im black dude if that matter to you. Now im pretty sure you heard of mill avenue, downtown scotsdale and downtown phx is where most of the clubbing and bars are at. secondly you going have tell me what type of woman are looking for. since your 26 downtown scotsdale martini ranch would be perfect for your age ranges. now if you dont care then there are alot option out there.

Im 6ft 1in 230 21 and please don't be the shy type. Oh yes i have 9 that has double d on my plate and she 27 so i know how to talk to older woman
 
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Dude, I'm black too. I actually prefer younger women. I just broke up with a 26yo 9. Checked out some of your other posts and think we could potentially be a dangerous tag team. Maybe reserved at times, but not shy. Trying to get multiple plates. Had some older chicks before the gf, but really hate to back track. Was at Canteen on Mill this weekend and saw HELLA ass to holler at but had weak wings with me. Looking to step my cold approach club/bar game up, but I'm mainly out of practice and can mos def pull when primed. I'll drop you a PM

I'll drop you a PM and we can
 
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Im from ahwatukee too. I went to mountain pointe. pm me....ill be back out there
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Looking for wings who wanna hang out out chill spots, maybe shoot some pool, and talk to the early crowd of women. I'm not into the club scene and don't like dealing with the loud music which makes it hard to hear.

I wanna put myself in a scene where I feel comfortable and this usually means hitting up the happy hours and such. If you're down for this, PM me.
 
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