"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ares

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Welcome lads and gents, this post right here is my way to give something back to this school of real men...

Now I am not gonna give you any great revelations or miracles, this is simply gonna be a post that inspires, makes you feel and hopefully think a little...

I will for the most part speak of something that isnt the favorite theme on this site...Being a man, and deffently when trying to become a don juan you will face a lot of obstacles, A LOT of obstacles.
Some will be minor, like an irritating fly or somewhat bad weather.
Others will be towering walls that seem impossible to climb, and that is a terrifying struggle every step of the way!!

You can of course escape these hardships, live without almost any defeats and downfalls, become a shell of a man, die and be forever forgotten.....

Or you can pack your mental bag, throw it over your shoulders and give the world a hell of a lot of trouble keeping you down.
You can choose the path that could crush, destroy and take everything from you, choose the way that will lead to both great thundering defeats and glorious everlasting victories, and shun the passage trough life that only an animal can be fully content with...

Choose now!!! Cowards out, fighters read on:

Lesson 1: Life is your enemy!
For those of you who still thinks that life is some sort of cuddly fuzzy romantic flic where everyone lives happily ever after and the grass is greener on the other side and all that other sh#t that soceity has fed you.....Your dead, you just havent realised it yet, either dig yourself out of your hole or dig until you no longer hear my voice!!!

Lesson 2: Every enemy can be defeated!
So your still there, I thought you would be hiding under your bed crying like a lost little b#tch.
Ah well, might as well tell you some more then.
Fight back, always fight back. Even when life has you under his heel and your have not an ounce of strenght left in your body.....FIGHT BACK!!! this is not some sort of a fairyland, this is the real world and if you dont fight back when life puts you down your dead!!!

Lesson 3: Victory has its costs!
Have you ever seen a single war movie where no one dies, a singel battle where everyone is spared.....You all know the answer..
So what the h#ll made you think that the war against being an AFC, a failure, a piece of sh#t would be a pleasnt one, this is not a casual stroll in the park, this is you trying against most odds to become that almost forgotten shining beacon of a man that we all refer to as a Don Juan!(I wanna add one thing here: being a don juan is not your birthright, it is a fate you must grasp yourself, no one is gonna paw the way for you, either you do it or it doesnt get done!!)
So cast aside your childish dreams of accomplising something without the work involved.

Lesson 4: Turn your pain and misery into something good!
How many of you have done the following thing when life seems dark and things dont go right in your life: whined about it, drunk or smoked to forget, occupied yourself with other things(computer games, movies, music ++)...What you are doing here is simply trying to ignore that there is suffering in the world, its like a man ignoring a knife in his back or ignoring that his house is burning down...You weak frail little sissys, they should chop of your d#ck cause you dont deserve to have one
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anyone left? have all of you hidden from the truth?

AHA!! dont think I dont see you, so you still wanna fight, still wanna become a man....well, lets see how you do:rolleyes: ....
Instead of turning a blind eye and a deaf ear to your troubles and frustrations you can instead try to learn something from it, maybe even make some good come out of it....but of course that will require a substansial form of both stamina and strenght, so anyone not possesing that can get out now....

Lesson 5: Not everything wich makes us feel better is good for us. Not everything that hurts is bad - Alain de Botton
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Now that all the betas has either given up this post or huddeld themselfs in a corner I can give you some words to live by....


Winter brings on cold wheater; and we must shiver. Summer returns, with its heat; and we must sweat. Unseasonable weather upsets the health; and we must fall ill. In certain places we may meet with wild beasts, or with men who are more destruvtive than any beasts...And we cannot change this order of things...it is to this law [of Nature] that our souls must adjust themselves, this they should follow, this they should obey....That wich you cannot reform, it is best to endure. - Seneca
There is only one inborn error, and that is the notion that we exist in order to be happy....So long as we persist in this inborn error...the world seems to us full of contradictions. For at every step, in great things and small, we are bound to experience that the worl and life are certanly not arranged for the purpose of maintaning a happy existence...hence the countenances of almost all elderly persons wear the expression of what is called disapointment. - Schopenhauer
And here my friends is the creme de la crem:

Dont talk about giftedness, inborn talents! One can name all kinds of great men who were not very gifted. They acquired greatness, became "geniuses" (as we put it) through qualities about whose lack no man aware of them likes to speak: all of them dad that diligent seriousness of a craftsman, learning first to construct the parts properly before daring to make a great whole. They allowed themselves time for it, because they took more pleasure in making the little, secondary things well than in the effect of a dzzling whole. - Nietzsche
So my brothers in arms, all around the world....
Pick up your swords, assemble your courage and let a great roar sound to tell every person and every stone in this world that you will not fall, you will always fight back, as long as you have wind in your lungs you will become better, stronger and faster and the rest be damned!!!

"Cry havoc, and let loose the dogs of war" - Shakespear

Ares out:cool:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ares

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hmm....not much feedback here....aah well, just hope it helps some of you out there...;)
 

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i thought it was real good. i was kinda a carbon copy of many things here but i loved it either way and it helped me 2 realize that life is gonna be a b!tch no matter way. the only thing to do is man up and battle back.
 

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excellent post... 9.5/10

gets really deep, but keeps on using regular language; also liked the war references

/end crit

anyways, you're right

It's time for all of us to get to work :-D see you all on the other side....
 

hacx

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this post was great.............:D

bible material
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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hacx

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Originally posted by Ares
hmm....not much feedback here....aah well, just hope it helps some of you out there...;)
we're busy playing (computer games, movies, music ):rolleyes:
 
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